I’ve spent this last week sorting, separating, dividing and deciding. I had to make some hard choices about things I wanted to keep and things I needed to throw out. Of the things I felt were worth keeping I had to decide if it was something worth lugging across this great nation, or just lugging to my parents place to store in their garage until some time indeterminable.
So that’s where I am now. I came into Brandon last night with the furniture I had borrowed from my parents, filing cabinets, my book and my CD collection, and 90 percent of my wardrobe.
Over this past week I determined there was no way I could bring all my clothes - it just wasn’t necessary. The system I used to determine if I should keep the article of clothing was simple: I held it up and my mother either pointed at the “keep heap” or the “dump bump” - as I had cleverly dubbed them. What I’m left with is a small but more than adequate collection of clothes and the Brandon Value Village got a great donation.
This evening I went to my Grandparents for supper and to say my goodbyes, I knew this was going to be tough. My grandfather has been sick lately and leaving him and not knowing what was in store for him was weighing heavy on my mind and my conscience. After seeing him more spry than I’ve seen him in years and talking with him I truly feel I have his blessing and that means a lot to me.
Now, I just finished packing my truck with what I’m taking and preparing to say goodbye to my Mother. I know this is going to be tough and I’ve been wishing this day would never come. I know my Mother and Father have liked having a child of theirs in the same province as them over the past 3 years just as much as I have loved being this close to them again. But, with that said, we all feel the move is right and my folks have peace with my decision.
There is still a little concern about where I will live but things are beginning to fall into place. I’ve been offered a lot of help over the past few weeks and I truly believe things will workout. Thank you to everyone who has read this and sent me an email, tracked me down on Twitter or otherwise - I really appreciate all the help.
Again, don’t hesitate to reach out if you know of a great spot to rent or any other advice about living in Toronto. Until the next post - have a great Saturday night.